Danielle Christopher

I know I should have thicker skin when it comes to snide remarks. I know I should let it roll off my back. I know I shall expect it again. It makes my brain go into what people should say. They are:

5 things Not to Say to an Autism Parent

1. Everything happens for a reason.
2. At least the child is healthy.
3. That must be tough.
4. Can’t you control your kid? ( or the nasty glances.)
5. I don’t know how you do it.
6. This kid is born to you because you are strong and can handle it all.

5 things to say to an Autism Parent

1. How are you?
2. Can I babysit sometime?
3. Your kid is wonderful/smart/delightful.
4. The world is a better place with your kid in it.
5. _______________________________________

I wish to put this on a laminated card to hand out when people approach me . I wonder what the fifth thing that should be on that list.

What would you say to a parent with a child on the spectrum that is positive?